Changing Day By Day

Hey All,

Writing after a long time today. These days I am experiencing certain changes in my behaviour and I mention it here because these changes are very sharp and affecting my conduct in a significant manner. Some of these changes are positive whether some are negative.

Startin with the positive one.. I can notice a definate change in my thought process. I have a natural urge for knowledge and it's on the peak these days. The most important thing here is that I am making efforts this time in that direction. I am full with a positive mindset and open to learning anything, no matter what it is, provided it is constructive. The second positive change worth mentioning is initiation of actions without delaying, which has been a great problem with me for a long.

Talking about the negative changes..I could feel that I am full of anger and have adopted a rebellistic attitude. I have started opposing and refusing everything, no matter what it is. I had been so cool since last couple of years but this time I am absolutely spitting fire. Second change is a sense of arrogance which is also one of the reasons of my rebellisitic attitude.

I'll try to overcome all the negative aspects and would try my best to sustain the positive ones. All suggestions are welcome.

Thanks!!

Experience makes a man perfect

Yes,
I m learning it!!It gives you immense pleasure when you acquire a new skill and start using it for your own and for others welfare.There are many skills which I have acuired during last couple of weeks.
The first I would say is blogging itself.Though,I knew about blogging ever since it started cathcing pace but because of limited access to internet and due to some other reasons I could not do much here and also could not understand how to use this media.Though,this media has so wide area that its really difficult to understand all its dimensions so early,but I would say that I have been successful in learning the basics.Its a very wonderful source of acuring,sharing and distributing info.Now,I need to understand,how can I make my blog popular and also make people post their comments.
The second skill is writing skill.Though,everyone keeps writing something ever since one's childhood but its still a skill which can be developed only through practice.In my profession its absolutely mandatory to have such skills.Now I am working very hard onto this.
Those who might,some time ever in future might come across to this piece of writing, please post your comments as recognition is the best source of inspiration.
cheers!!

Marriage...yes or no...

Guys,
Today i m starting a vry important and interseting discussion and hope all of us wud b interseted in this topic.Marriage...a quite complicated subject...most of the youths in urban area have a different kind of mindset on this issue,which is completely different frm the traditional one for sure...Mindset of youths frm semi urban and youths even frm rural area, is changing vry rapidly...
The question to be asked is shud we enter into this institution??shud be get married??B4 asking this question we must reach to the root of the question....do we want to get married??most of the guys interact with are pessimistic onto this but they are strongly optimistic for havin sex...across genders....
Is sex the only reason for which we get married,if that's d reason a lot many other options are available with us..isn't it???:) then why to get married??
If the reason for marriage is that we do need sm1 to stand by ourselves and understand our emotions...but that is wat hardly happens into marriages....can sm1 cite me one perfect example of perfect couple....made 4 each other....hardly!!isn't it?
And even worse is the condition when it is arranged marriage...practically i find it as diplomatic relationship between two families...whr they hide things frm each other so often...the basic purpose of marriage is to havin sm1 4 u who u can trust...but when thr is condition when other party is hiding things away frm you then the basic purpose of marriage is defeated..and believe me it happens,,peole hide things like their previous relationships,fake their education and all(in arranged marriages)
Even if it is love marriage and the couple finds themselves as heavenly made,then also thr is always a fear of you losing your individuality to make your partner happy.but parctically a person can't continue with doin so for a long time...
Marriage is not the desease its just reason for a greater trouble...after marriage you are forced to hav kids by your partner,parents and family,society for all the valid and stuppid reason...question marks are raised on your sexuality if you try to use family control measures for long....don't think that i m livin with prejucies..it makes lot of sense as i hav observed all this frm the socity around...
Guys,it might be that i hav had a limited reach and it might not b a complete picture...pls do share your views onto this and let's find deeper insight onto this...sm of you guys mite also find it stuppid and wastage of time...I apologize to all of them in advance as I kno even discussin on this issue is definately wastage of time...but you can take it for expressing your views...plz share your views if you find it worth...

Cheers,
have fun and enjoy !!
Shashank

Why can't we come out of our preconcieved notions?

Hey All,
today while travelling way to my office I met a guy from my hometown. He is working with a software multinational. When the cinversation just started I thought(looking onto his work profile) that he must be having a modern value system.
In my earlier writing I have strongly suggested that if our country has to mive forward we will have to bank on our moral values and I still stand by that.But the problem is that people actually don't understand the real value syatem of Indian Culture.
I couldn't make this thing understand to that silly fellow as he started shouting and screaming and also I think bus is not a proper venue to discuss "Value System".
Can someone tell me what has been the traditonal values of our culture. To the innocent persons let me tell you that Indian culture,the traditional one has always been free of concieved notions,materailistic and worldlly boundations ans also from prejudictions.
Sages and saints had gone out in search of the ultimate truth...life and God...and they were always free of their family restrictions. the thing that they respected most was their individuality and their starvation for knowledge.
Even in Ramayana lord Ram had left his hpme,palace and kingdoms to fulfil his goals i.e. to kill the devils,though Ram always knew that his father would die if he left home...But he did so...
Whenever we talk about Indian(Hindu) value system we only think of the morals such as Ram,the ideal son,but we miss to consider Bhakat Prahlad who actually worshiped God actually to make earth free of his father's destiny of sins(as mentioned in Purans).
Guys, here I invite comments from all of you..This is one of the hottest issues that we guys usually encounter with in our routine lives...plz post your comments onto this...

Shashank